Photo from Cort Johnson interview.
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“Tom,” as many of us knew him, once had a thriving career in
sales before he was struck down with what is known by many as chronic fatigue
syndrome and chronic Lyme’s disease.
However, Tom never stopped his tireless advocacy for those suffering
from invisible illnesses that cause disability and hardship. So it is only
fitting that we give tribute to a great advocate.
Tom was a go getter, a blunt speaker, but proficient. He
used his voice, time and talent to raise awareness even though he suffered and
struggled like so many of his peers in the world of chronic illness. He fought
for recognition of chronic immunological and neurological diseases including,
myalgic encephalomyelitis/CFS, fibromyalgia, multiple chemical sensitivity, Lyme’s
disease, Gulf War Syndrome and other overlapping disorders he felt deserved awareness.
Tom was not only proficient, he was highly intelligent, and
never missed a beat. Some might call him
crass, but all would agree he was effective. He chose his battles well and used
his disdain for the way people were treated. He used his anger regarding the
ignorance and complacency of many as fuel for his mind, even when his body was
failing him. When he could, he used his unique and colorful public speaking
skills to bring awareness, and he was adamant about a name change for “chronic
fatigue syndrome.”
Tom was the founder of international awareness day for Invisible
Illness, May 12th. In an
interview with Cort Johnson (2008) Tom said, “After reading Byron Hyde’s great
book on the history of Myalgic Encephalomyelitis, I decided to use his Birthday,
and lo and behold, May 12th [thought to be] was Florence
Nightingale’s birthday.” How fitting.
It doesn’t stop there; Tom was also the founder of R.E.S.C.I.N.D.
(Repeal
Existing Stereotypes for Chronic Immunological and Neurological Disorders.)
This author signed a petition initiated by R.E.S.C.I.N.D. some 13 years
ago along with thousands upon thousands of others. The stories with those
signatures are heart wrenching, and Tom did all he could do to spread our voice.
Little did this writer know that we would meet again in the virtual
world, and that we would exchange personal emails on various advocacy issues.
Tom always supported other advocates. He was always
concerned that the ball would be dropped on raising awareness for ME/CFS, FM,
GWS, Lyme’s and other clustering invisible illnesses. He knew only too well how
these illnesses can take a person with strength of character and a thriving
career and grind their human dignity into the ground. Therefore, he seized yet
more opportunities by making contributions to the NIH committee Chronic Fatigue
Syndrome Action Committee, CFSAC, even when he was so ill he could hardly hold
up his head. At one point he took on the CDC, and no doubt he made his points
clear.
Tom was never one to mince words, he made this writer laugh
on many occasions with his bold and powerful statements, but he also made
people think. Today, the movement continues for a name change. It’s here, it is
recognized by the CFSAC that chronic fatigue syndrome will be called myalgic
encephalomyelitis/chronic fatigue syndrome. But the work isn’t done; now the “label”
must be embraced by every healthcare provider and researcher. You did this Tom!
Tom was an advocate who spoke brilliantly on the Larry King
show adding his special flavor for a battle from which he would never back down.
He would describe himself as a mover and shaker and that was apparent in his vibrant
way of speaking. When he spoke, you were never left wondering where he stood
with his advocacy. On his Linked-In profile (always connected), he said he loves
fast cars, beautiful women, great jazz, charity concerts, travel, great food
and wine! That should come as no surprise, and I have seen pictures to prove it.
Tom was a true advocate; he inspired many, and he never
stopped despite many obstacles sent his way. Tom made a difference for many
patients, some of which he never knew. The legacy is to never give up. Help Tom live on by continuing the work to
raise awareness. Honor this great advocate’s legacy by putting action into your
words. Use your time and talent, you have them. There could be no better
tribute to this man called friend by many.
Written by Celeste Cooper, friend and fellow virtual advocate
http://TheseThree.com
4 comments:
I did not know Tom-However I can tell he was a fighter. I am so sad to hear of his struggles and of his death.
MY DAYS WERE BRIEF AMONG YOU-
I NOW GO WITH THE WIND-
BE NOT DOWN WITH SADNESS-
I'M BACK WHERE I BEGAN-
WE HAVE LOST A FIGHTER.
CAROLE
Carole, how poignant. TY for sharing.
My condolences too the Hennessy Family. I to have CFS/Lyme, and met Thomas on Facebook, there we talked for hours about Advocacy. My dear friend Tom was a 'True Gentleman', A Fighter & Warrior for finding a Cure/Research in help of others with this dreadful disease. I'm totally DEVASTATED that my brother is gone, but his Legacy shall live on forever, Rest in Peace my Brother, Love You Always
Michelle, we are all better for having known Tom. Too many have suffered the consequences of poorly understood neuro-endocrine-immune disorders. Yes, may he rest in peace. Thank you for taking the time to comment. Yesterday, I deleted his contact information from my email. Some things take time.
In healing and hope, Celeste
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