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I think we would
all say living with a condition that causes us chronic unrelenting pain is a
threat to our overall well being. It's because we travel an unpredictable road full of
potholes. But despite this reality, I still try to find opportunity in adversity because I know it is important to maintain a balance that keeps me mentally, emotionally and spiritually healthy. I can't change my physical condition, but I can control how I react to it. Viewing my circumstances from the perspective of my heroes helps me with this.
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"Character
cannot be developed in ease and quiet.
Only through experience of trial and
suffering can the soul be strengthened, ambition inspired, and success
achieved."
-~Helen
Keller
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Heroes
For me, heroes
are people I admire for their tenacity and their ability to show gratitude
despite facing significant obstacles. My heroes are people I admire for the way they confront adversity with success.
Know your heroes
Identifying our
hero or heroes is an important first step.
I have many heroes. Several also face chronic illness. Another is my granddad, who always related to others in a positive way, without judgment and with a willing and giving spirit. He grew tomatoes, just so he could give them to his neighbors, and he kept cookies for all the neighborhood children who came to visit. Some are my heroes because they make me feel loved or
safe. Many heroes are advocates who use their voice for the greater good. Not
all of my heroes are people I know personally. I have had several through the years, actor
Christopher Reeve is one.
Have you thought about who might make this prestigious list in your life?
Reasons we choose our heroes
There are many
reasons we admire certain people.
·
They
confront obstacles head on.
·
They
are work to turn obstacles into opportunities.
·
They
avoid a negative vortex.
·
They
are empathetic.
·
They
stay focused on resolution.
·
They
are a positive role model.
When I think of
how my hero would handle something, I feel their strength.
How to think like a hero
We can’t say for
certain how someone else would react to any given situation, but we can identify
observed behaviors that we admire. We can:
·
Recognize
acceptance is necessary to move forward.
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Accentuate
the positives that are a result of your illness, such as new friends,
opportunities for helping others, becoming more spiritual, or any opportunity
for personal growth.
·
Strive
to react the way our role model would react. [This allows us to maintain a neutral, non-judgmental point of view.]
·
Be
supportive to others.
Dr. Elisabeth
Kübler-Ross was a medical doctor, psychiatrist, and author who was
world-renowned for her pioneering work on death, dying, and the grieving
process. Through her work she learned that life is like the changing of the
seasons from spring to summer, summer to fall, and fall to winter.
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Elisabeth
Kübler-Ross has influenced the world. The impact of her work affected me
through my nursing career and has had a great influence on my writing. Learning to live with chronic pain is a process we work through to acceptance, much like the grieving process. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross's work
on the changing seasons of life was instrumental in the development and writing
of our (co-author Jeff Miller, PhD) Broken Body, Wounded Spirit: Balancing
the See-Saw of Chronic Pain series, Winter Devotions, Spring
Devotions, Summer Devotions, and
Fall Devotions.
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Obstacles are
necessary turning points. If we cultivate them into opportunity, we know
triumph. For those of us living with chronic pain, success is measured by how
far we come in our reaction to it, for that is the only thing we can control. Heroes are my helpmates for dealing with fibromyalgia, migraine, autoimmune
chronic illness and rheumatic disease.
Additional
Reading:
In healing,
Think adversity?-See opportunity!
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